We understand that you may feel as though your situation is hopelessly unique. That’s a natural way to feel, but we have news for you: it isn’t true! Yes, your relationship is completely unique, but you are not the only married couple whose lives have been impacted by porn. Many, many other married couples have managed to deal with porn addiction in either or both spouses and have found freedom and a renewed intimacy.
We have a variety of resources in the Get Help section for spouses but I would recommend that you begin in the start here section and take your time reading and looking at the variety of recommended resources to discern what is best for you(r) situation: http://www.xxxchurch.com/start-here/i-just-found-out-my-spouse-uses-porn